Where are All the Good Men?
A common (but true) complaint from many women is their struggle to find a high-value partner.
So…
Where are all the good men?
They are married with a family
They are focused on their mission (or providing for their family)
In either case, they are NOT looking for you.
At least, not actively.
And that is exactly how you want it to be.
If you desire a partner who is committed, focused, loyal, passionate, (and all the other traits on your checklist)… you must go to where he is already living those qualities.
You must meet the version of the man you want in his arena.
The good news is that arena is likely one you already go to or should go to!
For your highest chance at finding a compatible match, go to the places you are most interested in.
That means actively pursuing what you already love… whether it’s work (office romance), networking (for the entrepreneur folk), traveling (foreign fling), cooking (supermarket), dance / music, concerts, classes, etc.
And of course, connection can happen anywhere at anytime.
But think about the version of him and you that you want to connect with?
Is it at the bar? Where the attitude is carefree, sloppy, and distracted.
Is it on a dating app? Where everyone is lost, horny, bored, or lonely.
Is it at a museum? Where curiosity and inspiration are on display.
Is it at the beach club in Ibiza? Where both of you are living your best life. #yolo
Where? Is the key question you want to ask yourself.
The problem is never you. It is the room you are in.
Find the good men where they are handling their business.
Or connect with a man who’s business is handling you (*ahem 🤵🏽♂️).
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