Give it to me Straight
Too much information is sugar coated or just outright lies.
Especially in the world of dating & romance (thanks Hollywood).
Let me tell you how it really goes down, based on extensive real world experience.
Men want one thing.
They have one prioritized focus that usually dominates their attention on any given day.
Sometimes it’s work.
Sometimes it’s money.
Sometimes it’s sex.
Sometime it’s a hobby.
Sometimes it’s starting a family.
Anything else that falls outside of the main thing for the day, gets de-prioritized.
It’s how we are wired.
The issue for women in dating is:
Not knowing his main priority
Wanting his main priority to be starting a family / commitment (the least likely)
If a man wants to start a family he will do it, which also means there is little else you can do about it.
That also means most men who are actively seeking to start a family usually end up “taking whoever they can get” out of convenience to satisfy their priority, (so they can then move on to the next priority).
I am not a woman.
But I will assume a woman’s priority list is inverse to a guy’s where commitment, family, stability take center stage.
That means women who are actively on the lookout for hubby must compete with the same limited “take whoever you can get” mentality… which of course leads to unhappy marriages and divorce.
Or wait around for a long time until a high quality man feels accomplished enough to make you his top priority (appeal of older men).
So.
The dating struggles are real and often unspoken on behalf of women.
The all or nothing mindset of “only dating for commitment” may backfire heavily on you, if you are a woman.
No, it’s not fair.
And yes, men have an advantage.
But this is also an opportunity to empower yourself, enjoy dating for what it is, and level up the playing field.
Just because you are not in a committed relationship, it does not mean you have to go without.
(again men are spoiled with options for escort services, online entertainment, and a whole list of things).
As an honest gentleman who cares, this is my attempt to fill the gap for women.
By combining all of my priorities into one beautiful companionship offering; ensuring you get the attention and connection you deserve.
You are the #1 priority.
You can enjoy all the benefits of a connection you desire (almost. maybe. the kids can be negotiated).
Anything you want in a connection can be yours, or at least practiced until the right person comes along.
And if you are happily independent, you may find my companionship to be a perfect enhancement to your already amazing life.
Anywho, happy hunting.
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